What does a Day of Coordinator do? 

It's quite simple, a Day of Coordinator is responsible for making sure that your special day and all the
details that go into it are executed to perfection. This includes in overseeing
vendors, managing a timeline, and taking care of those last minute details and
challenges that may occur. 

I know what you're thinking... I can do all those things. In reality, yes, you probably can; but do you really want to worry about all the itty bitty details of your big day. The bride's job, the mother of the bride's job, the maid of honor's job, and the bridal party's job on this special occasion is to focus on the bride and to spend this wonderful day with her. The details of vendors and timeline should not even
cross her path that day. This is the main reason, a Day of Coordinator is important.
The coordinator is hired to do just those things.

The price range of Day of Coordinators differ depending on the responsibilities that are 
requested and needed. Another cost determination may be your expected guest count. 
A Day of Coordinator is not to be confused with a Planner. A Planner executes all the 
details of your day from start to finish. So, if you feel you want help from the beginning 
of planning to your final walk to your get-away car then a planner is a great route. If you just 
want to make sure your big day is seamless then a Day of Coordinator is a great option
to  consider.

The Barn at Love Barn works with a great list of Planners and Day of Coordinators that
we will share with our brides. You will not be disappointed in the magic they bring to 
your day!

We want to share our thoughts and intentions here in response to the concerns and questions of our current bridal couples, families, and you who are planning your weddings and celebrations here in the future.

Please know that we desire that every one of you gets to have the wedding of your dreams, exactly as you have been planning.  We also know that you are very concerned about what is going to be allowable at The Barn at Love Farms for your  date.

We are following the guidelines set forth for us as time is going by, hoping and praying that this Virus is soon eradicated so that everything returns to our "normal" at The Barn at Love Farms as soon as possible.     And that
your wedding vows and celebrations can go on with All those you love in attendance!

So...
We will watch and wait, just like you.  We will allow all that is allowed to us as far as social
gathering and distancing.  While we believe that, at any given time, people who are remotely ill
should always be courteous and stay home from these types of events-and that most people have the good sense to do that.
We also know, without a doubt, that there are those who just won't comply.  And because it is so important that grandparents and other family membersand friends who are in a high risk category should be able to attend the wedding, we know that you want your wedding, but you want their safety too.

Then...
Continue to call or text us with your questions, concerns and planning info and we will give you all of the information that we are able to gather.  We will work with you every way we can on an ongoing basis. 

You are our Why!



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The fear of every bride who desires to get married outside is "what if it rains on my wedding day"?   
If it even begins to drizzle for a second, everyone is quick to offer the advice that rain is good luck on your wedding day.  And if you're like most brides-that doesn't EVEN begin to make you feel any better!

When choosing your venue for an outdoor wedding-you need to consider a few key factors:
1-Where is my dream ceremony site (probably the reason you chose this particular venue anyway.)?
2-In case of rain: does the venue have an adequate indoor facility that plan B can offer a beautiful ceremony setting as well?
3-Are the owners/manager willing to hold off until the 11th hour before moving the ceremony inside?
Many venue managers want to move the ceremony inside based strictly on the weather forecast.
4-Do your guests have a place to duck under if an impromptu shower dumps its contents at the last minute?
Or do they have to run into your beautifully set reception area-dripping all over your beautiful tables capes?

At The Barn at Love Farms venue we are committed to making every effort to fulfill the wishes of our bridal couples.  So rest assured that we will make every effort to accommodate your request for an outdoor ceremony if at all possible.  Know that there is a certain amount of time necessary to "flip" the venue when plan B is necessary, but that time will be pushed back as long as possible when there is a chance that the rain will subside and the sun will return to shine on your exchange of vows outside of the Barn. In case of the need to move indoors-Your decorations will fit beautifully inside our Barn where you can still walk a long aisle from our Bridal Suite to your waiting groom as your guests enjoy the beauty of the moment.
And our 1600 square foot porch provides shelter if your guests should need it-with lots of ceiling fans to dry those drizzles!
Never settle for 2nd best and NEVER rely on luck!  

It is easy to get so excited over your new engagement that you want to share it with all of your girlfriends.  And in the heat of the moment, you want ask everyone who is excited with you to stand up at the altar beside you.  

Before your excitement overtakes your best judgement, there are a few things you might consider before you ask your bridesmaids:
1.  Does she approve of your finance'-and this marriage?  If she has not been your biggest supporter of this relationship; she might not be the best of the best buds to include on this path to the altar.  
2.  Is the wedding formal or informal?  Tradition has it that most formal weddings have larger bridal parties whereas, a with a less formal wedding may want to only include your sister, sister-in-law and your bff. This holds true whether you are having a church wedding or even at a Barn wedding venue.  You can still have this mass of girlfriends celebrating with you at your bridal shower, bachelorette party, wedding and reception.  (They may be thrilled that they don't have to buy that never-to-be-worn-again dress!)
3.  Will you be friends forever?  Step back a moment and ask yourself if you will still be doing things together often, even if it's just chatting regularly in a year, or in 5 years? Will you really, REALLY be there for each other through the good years and the challenging days?
4.  Can she afford all of the expense and responsibility that is necessary when being a bridesmaid?  Giving a bridal shower, buying the dress, attending the bachelorette party, and buying the wedding gift can all add up. Some are so grateful to celebrate with you-without the obligatory purchases that go with being in the wedding party.

All that being said.  DO include those closest to you and those who will remain close and stand by you, not just on that beautiful day, but for years and years to come.
And DO choose those who will make you laugh and help calm your nerves on the way to the altar-whether it's under a beautiful old oak tree or at the front of the cathedral.

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Wondering how to include beautiful fresh flowers without breaking your wedding budget?  Here are a few suggestions based on what some of the budget savvy brides have done recently at The Barn at Love Farms. And take advantage of all of the flowers popping up as a result of the spring showers.
Do: consult with a florist.  Most good florists are happy to help you whittle down that initial flower bill with ways to include flowers for the ceremony venue and inside the barn - often using 1 beautiful arrangement for the ceremony, and then moving it inside to a focal table for the reception.  They will help you to make your floral budget a reality.  If they don't, consult another florist.
Do: splurge on the bridal bouquet and, to a lesser degree, on the bridesmaids bouquets.  These can also be placed in beautiful containers in a special place-like beside your guest book as friends enter to write a special wish (and remember to include enough space in whatever you use as a guest book so they can write a sentence or two of well wishes).  Also, have the florist include at least one of your favorite flowers in your bouquet if they are in season.  Flowers that aren't in season will cost more than those that are readily available.  
Don't: feel that you have to purchase all of your flowers from a single vendor.  Many farmers' markets have beautiful blooms available.  Check those markets, as well as grocery stores and wholesale clubs several months in advance to see what will be available in the season you say your marriage vows.  If you can DIY a few blossoms into a glass vase, a small paint can from a hardware store, or even into a rustic Mason jar, then these will be very pretty sitting down the aisle and then on a few guest tables.
Don't: assume that you need flowers on every table at the wedding reception.  Use flowers on every other table and the room will still have that freshness and beauty that flowers offer.  
Do: Make use of the many decorations offered by venues such as The Barn at Love Farms for the other table and ceremony site decor.  Lanterns, candles, vases and centerpiece holders go a long way in making your wedding unique.
Do: Use lots of greenery.  It can be a very budget friendly and beautiful accessory.  Imagine lots of greens with just a flower or two added in.
    AND MOST OF ALL:  DO Make it fit your own personality and enjoy your wedding day.  Your memories will be beautiful!

Did you know that most couples get engaged in November and December? So January and February are busy months at The Barn at Love Farms. Wedding couples are reserving barn wedding venue dates. As a result, most of fall 2018 is booked (we still have September 1 & 8 available). Most of our bridal couples are now booking into 2019. If you want a June, July or August wedding at The Barn at Love Farms, call us. We still have a few summer 2018 wedding ceremony and/or reception dates available. And inside The Barn we have adequate air conditioning! The Barn at Love Farms celebrates Love this Valentine's month with a few specials if you are desiring to be married within the next couple of months. Don't hesitate to book your barn wedding venue first, as there are only a few outdoor wedding ceremony venues in the Mississippi Gulf Coast area. Call tel.228.493.0983 or contact us through our website at http://www.thebarnatlovefarms.com to come for a look and see all we have to offer for your wedding weekend.
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What a year we had in 2017!. In January, we were anxiously waiting for construction permitting for the Barn.  And then, we could hardly wait for completion and for late summer and early fall when we would celebrate with some wonderful couples.  August 5th came-our first wedding, and better yet, the marriage of our daughter.  What a blessing!  And in the following months we got to see so many families joined as two exchanged marriage vows, expected babies' parents were showered and a sweet family celebrated the birthday of a little one.
Have you ever wondered why you couldn't get certain things you dreamed of to come about in your life in your own timing? Or why things you thought would please God just didn't work out like you wanted?
We got to see God's work all through 2017 when many dreams, concerns and timing become reality at the Barn at Love Farms.  The weddings, the people, the timing was all perfect.  
We look forward to the many couple who have already chosen to celebrate their weddings at the The Barn in 2018 and 2019.  Have you booked your venue yet?  Do that First, because venues are limited and so are the number of weekends in a year.  Call us and come out to secure your first choice soon.  tel.228-493-0983

1. We are excited to welcome the Hancock-Harrison Cattleman's Association Board Members next Thursday, November 2nd at 6:30pm. Do you need a place to have your organization's meeting, Christmas party, shower or Birthday party? Call (228.493.0983), text or email us ([email protected])- or just fill out our contact form On our website. We will be happy to work with you for these on weekdays in addition to our hosting weddings and other large events on weekends.
   

Looking for a place to get some awesome photos with Santa this year? Photographer Justin Daniels will be here Saturday, November 25th. Contact him for an appointment at 601.337.2461.